[English 101] ONLINE DATING - Vocabulary for profiles, messages, and meeting up

Teaching Material

1. Her ‘about me’ highlights her love for traveling and baking.
• about me (noun phrase) - A short descriptive section on a dating profile where you introduce yourself
• Use ‘about me’ to share key interests, personality traits, or fun facts. Keep it concise, honest, and engaging to pique others’ curiosity and attract matches aligned with your personality.
• Have you updated the ‘about me’ part on your dating profile yet?
2. The dating app’s algorithm suggests new profiles daily.
• algorithm (noun) - A process or set of rules followed by a computer, often used for matching people on dating apps
• Use ‘algorithm’ when discussing the technical aspect of how the app pairs or suggests matches. It’s helpful to understand that it relies on your likes, swipes, and preferences.
• I’m not sure how their algorithm works, but I keep seeing similar profiles.
3. I found his profile on a popular dating app-sentence-cls text-decoration-underline fw-bold bg-info text-dark p-1">app.
• app (noun) - Short for application; a program downloaded to a mobile device, used here for online dating services
• Use ‘app’ for referencing any mobile dating platform. It’s common shorthand in casual conversation about phones and technology, so it’s handy for everyday dating discussions.
• Which dating app do you use the most?
4. They felt a strong attraction after chatting online for weeks.
• attraction (noun) - A feeling that makes one interested or drawn to another person
• Use ‘attraction’ to convey a pull or interest toward someone, whether physical, emotional, or intellectual. It’s essential in online dating to express the spark you feel.
• Do you think attraction can grow over messages, or do you need to meet first?
5. His bio mentioned his love for outdoor adventures and coffee.
• bio (noun) - A brief piece of text describing yourself, typically in an online profile
• Use ‘bio’ when talking about the short description that appears under your profile picture. Keep it genuine, reflecting your personality and likes. It’s your first impression online.
• I should rewrite my bio to be more interesting.
6. Her friend set her up on a blind date with someone from out of town.
• blind date (noun phrase) - A date where the two people have not met before and typically know little about each other
• Use ‘blind date’ to reference a meeting arranged by someone else or by an app that shares minimal info. It often brings excitement or nervousness due to the unknown.
• Have you ever gone on a blind date without checking social media first?
7. She decided to block him after receiving inappropriate messages.
• block (verb) - Prevent someone from contacting you or viewing your profile
• Use ‘block’ when you no longer wish to receive messages or interactions from another profile. It ensures your safety, comfort, and maintains your control over personal boundaries.
• If someone is harassing you, just block them and report it to the app’s support.
8. He realized he was chatting with a catfish when the photos didn’t match reality.
• catfish (noun/verb) - A person who creates a false online identity, usually to mislead others
• Use ‘catfish’ to highlight deception in online dating. Stay alert by verifying photos or planning a quick video call if something seems off to ensure authenticity.
• Always look for signs of a catfish, like stock pictures or vague stories.
9. They felt immediate chemistry during their first video chat.
• chemistry (noun) - A natural connection or rapport between two people, especially romantic or emotional
• Use ‘chemistry’ to describe the intangible spark or bond that makes conversations flow. It’s especially relevant when deciding to meet someone in person after online chats.
• I’m hoping for real chemistry, not just good texting vibes.
10. They have great compatibility based on shared values and lifestyle.
• compatibility (noun) - The ability of two people to exist or work together without conflict
• Use ‘compatibility’ when discussing how well two people’s personalities, goals, or interests align. It’s a key factor to consider in serious or long-term connections.
• We have decent compatibility on the surface, but I need to meet him to be sure.
11. Asking about a favorite travel destination is a great conversation starter.
• conversation starter (noun phrase) - An initial topic or question used to begin a dialogue
• Use ‘conversation starter’ to refer to that opening line or question you use to spark interest. Personalize it based on their profile, making it more engaging and genuine.
• I need a good conversation starter for my first message—any ideas?
12. He had a crush on someone he met in an online group chat.
• crush (noun) - A brief but intense infatuation with another person
• Use ‘crush’ for those butterflies-in-the-stomach feelings toward someone you find attractive or interesting, especially early in a connection. It’s casual and common in everyday speech.
• I’ve got a crush on a person I matched with last week, but I’m too shy to say anything.
13. Her curiosity led her to scroll through his entire profile history.
• curiosity (noun) - A strong desire to learn or know something, especially about someone else
• Use ‘curiosity’ to explain why you might explore someone’s profile or send a message. It often drives initial conversation, especially when you notice intriguing profile details.
• I messaged him out of curiosity to see if we’d get along.
14. Smoking was a deal-breaker for her when choosing dates.
• deal-breaker (noun) - A factor or issue that, if present, prevents a relationship from continuing
• Use ‘deal-breaker’ to define something you absolutely can’t accept in a relationship. Identifying personal deal-breakers helps filter matches and avoid long-term conflicts.
• I’m okay with a lot of quirks, but dishonesty is my deal-breaker.
15. He decided to delete his old photos and upload new ones.
• delete (verb) - To remove or erase, such as a message, profile, or photo
• Use ‘delete’ when you want to remove content or profiles permanently. On dating apps, it’s crucial to stay in control of your personal information or interactions that unsettle you.
• Should I delete that awkward conversation, or keep it for reference?
16. He preferred a discreet approach and used a nickname on his profile.
• discreet (adjective) - Intentionally unobtrusive and careful about privacy or confidentiality
• Use ‘discreet’ if you wish to maintain privacy or share limited personal details online. Important for those who want to keep professional or social circles separate from dating.
• I want to be discreet about my personal details until I trust them more.
17. They live a considerable distance apart, but still want to meet soon.
• distance (noun) - The physical space between two locations; crucial when dating people in different areas
• Use ‘distance’ when discussing how far away you and your match live. It matters for planning meet-ups and deciding if a long-distance or local relationship is feasible.
• Distance could be a problem; let’s see if we can meet halfway.
18. She slid into his DM after they matched on the app.
• DM (noun) - Direct message; a private communication sent through social media platforms or dating apps
• Use ‘DM’ for private messages on apps or social media. It’s short and informal, common in online dating or casual digital communication.
• Send me a DM if you want to grab coffee this weekend.
19. They arranged a double date with their mutual friends from the app.
• double date (noun phrase) - A social outing where two couples spend time together
• Use ‘double date’ if you or your match prefer a more relaxed group setting. It eases first-date nerves, offering shared conversation and less one-on-one pressure.
• Would you be okay with a double date? My friend wants to bring her boyfriend too.
20. He decided to edit his personal info after realizing it was out of date.
• edit (verb) - Modify or alter information, such as updating a profile
• Use ‘edit’ when you want to change or refine your online dating profile. Keeping it current ensures accuracy and helps attract those who align with who you are now.
• Let me edit my bio before you check it out, I made a typo.
21. He added a smiley emoji to lighten the tone of his message.
• emoji (noun) - A small digital image or icon used to express ideas or emotions in electronic messages
• Use ‘emoji’ to add personality or emotion to your chats. Moderation is key: too many emoji can distract, but the right ones can convey warmth or humor quickly.
• Should I add more emoji or keep my messages simple?
22. She used subtle filters on her selfies, enhancing brightness and clarity.
• filters (noun (plural)) - Effects or edits applied to photos that alter appearance or quality
• Use ‘filters’ to discuss photo enhancements. A light filter can help with presentation, but excessive editing might set unrealistic expectations for real-life meet-ups.
• Do you think heavy filters on profile pics can be misleading?
23. He tried to flirt by complimenting her travel stories.
• flirt (verb) - To show romantic or sexual interest in someone, often in a playful way
• Use ‘flirt’ when you want to indicate playful banter or affectionate teasing that shows interest. It can break the ice, but timing and tone are critical to avoid overstepping.
• I’m not great at flirting over text—I’d rather talk in person.
24. Her follow-up message asked if he’d like to meet for coffee.
• follow-up (noun/adjective) - A subsequent contact or action taken after an initial interaction
• Use ‘follow-up’ to describe messaging someone again after an initial exchange. It shows continued interest or clarifies any unanswered questions, prompting deeper conversation.
• If they don’t respond to my follow-up, I’ll move on.
25. Most dating apps have a freemium option that you can upgrade later.
• freemium (noun/adjective) - A pricing model that offers basic features for free but charges for premium enhancements
• Use ‘freemium’ to refer to services that are free with optional paid upgrades. Useful when discussing advanced features like unlimited swipes or extra privacy settings.
• I’m okay with the freemium version for now, but might pay to see who likes me.
26. He wants someone with a genuine personality, not a fake online persona.
• genuine (adjective) - Truly what something is said to be; authentic or sincere
• Use ‘genuine’ to emphasize real, honest intentions or authenticity. It’s a key descriptor in online dating, where sincerity can be harder to gauge without meeting in person.
• I’m looking for genuine profiles, not people pretending just to impress.
27. She felt upset after he started ghosting her with no warning.
• ghosting (verb/noun) - Suddenly stopping all communication with someone without explanation
• Use ‘ghosting’ to highlight the abrupt ending of contact in dating or friendships. It’s often seen as disrespectful. Communicating openly is usually better than disappearing.
• I’m worried he’s ghosting me because he hasn’t replied in days.
28. His headline read ‘Adventurer seeking a partner-in-crime.’
• headline (noun) - A brief statement or phrase at the top of a dating profile, often summarizing personality
• Use ‘headline’ for a short, catchy phrase that highlights your vibe. It’s often the first text people see, so keep it upbeat or intriguing to entice further reading.
• I need a witty headline to catch more people’s attention.
29. Her profile lists painting as a major hobby.
• hobby (noun) - An activity done regularly in one’s leisure time for pleasure
• Use ‘hobby’ to show what you do for fun or relaxation. Listing your hobbies can spark conversation and help potential matches see your personality beyond appearances.
• Which hobby do you enjoy the most, and do you share it on your profile?
30. He’s honest about wanting a serious relationship in his bio.
• honest (adjective) - Free of deceit and untruthfulness; sincere
• Use ‘honest’ to convey transparency and sincerity, which are crucial in establishing trust online. Emphasizing honesty can help you connect with like-minded individuals seeking genuine bonds.
• I’d appreciate if you were honest about your intentions from the start.
31. Her sense of humor was apparent in all her witty messages.
• humor (noun) - The quality of being amusing or comic, often causing laughter
• Use ‘humor’ to reference a lighthearted or funny approach in communication. People often list humor as a desirable trait, so showing you can joke creates warm connections.
• A bit of humor goes a long way on a first date or while texting.
32. Her first impression of him was that he was confident and polite.
• impression (noun) - An idea, feeling, or opinion about someone formed without conscious thought or on the basis of little evidence
• Use ‘impression’ to talk about the immediate perception you form of someone. In online dating, that first impression often comes from profile pictures or introductory messages.
• I want to make a good impression by being on time and dressing nicely.
33. He spent time crafting a polite initial message to stand out.
• initial message (noun phrase) - The first communication sent to break the ice or express interest
• Use ‘initial message’ to refer to that first outreach. It’s essential to be respectful, personal, and authentic to maximize the chance of a positive reply.
• What’s your go-to initial message when you match with someone?
34. He showed interest by asking detailed questions about her hobbies.
• interest (noun) - A feeling of wanting to learn more about someone or something
• Use ‘interest’ when you want to show curiosity or enthusiasm for another person. Demonstrating genuine interest can foster deeper connections and encourage open conversation.
• I’m not sure if he has any real interest, or if he’s just being polite.
35. She wrote in her profile that she’s an introvert who enjoys quiet nights in.
• introvert (noun) - A person who tends to turn inward, preferring solitary activities and smaller social circles
• Use ‘introvert’ to describe a personality type that values alone time. Mentioning this can help set expectations about social preferences or date ideas in online dating.
• I’m somewhat of an introvert, so large group dates aren’t my thing.
36. He tapped the ‘like’ button on her recent photo.
• like (verb/noun) - To register approval or enjoyment of a profile or post, often by clicking a heart or thumbs-up icon
• Use ‘like’ when you’re showing quick appreciation or interest. It’s a simple, non-verbal way to hint at your curiosity or to spark the other person’s attention.
• I got a like from that profile I’ve been eyeing for days.
37. He prefers dating within a 10-mile location range.
• location (noun) - A particular place or position, relevant for deciding how feasible a meet-up might be
• Use ‘location’ to determine distance settings on an app and gauge the practicality of meeting up. It’s a key factor in deciding if you’ll proceed with a match.
• Let’s set our location filters to see profiles nearby for a quick coffee date.
38. They started as a long-distance match, chatting across countries.
• long-distance (adjective) - A relationship style where partners live far apart and may primarily interact online
• Use ‘long-distance’ to describe relationships spanning larger geographical separations. It requires consistent communication, planning, and sometimes extra creativity to maintain connection.
• I’m open to a long-distance connection if we have strong communication.
39. She prefers to lurk before deciding if she should like someone’s profile.
• lurk (verb) - To read or observe online conversations or profiles without actively participating
• Use ‘lurk’ to express browsing or viewing someone’s content discreetly. Common in online spaces, but in dating, try to engage eventually for genuine interaction.
• I lurk on his profile now and then, but I’m too shy to message.
40. He got a new match and started chatting right away.
• match (noun/verb) - A mutual connection formed on a dating platform when both parties show interest
• Use ‘match’ to describe paired connections on dating sites. A ‘match’ indicates mutual interest, so it’s a good foundation to start a conversation or plan a date.
• We match on so many levels—let’s see if it works out in person!
41. Their mutual friend played matchmaker by introducing them online.
• matchmaker (noun) - A person, system, or service that brings two people together for potential romance
• Use ‘matchmaker’ to discuss someone or something that sets people up. In an online context, the algorithm or a friend can be the ‘matchmaker’ bridging two people.
• The app acts like a digital matchmaker, using shared interests to pair people.
42. Their first meet-up was at a cozy café downtown.
• meet-up (noun) - An arrangement to meet someone in person, often after online interaction
• Use ‘meet-up’ when you finally arrange an in-person meeting after chatting online. It’s often a casual first step to determine if a virtual connection feels right offline.
• We planned a meet-up this weekend, just to see if there’s real chemistry.
43. She sent him a thoughtful message to spark conversation.
• message (noun/verb) - A piece of information or communication sent electronically from one person to another
• Use ‘message’ to refer to any text, voice note, or direct communication on dating apps or social media. Keep them clear and respectful, especially when first reaching out.
• Did you see my message about grabbing dinner next week?
44. They discovered they have a mutual friend who introduced them online.
• mutual friend (noun phrase) - Someone known by both you and the person you’re interacting with
• Use ‘mutual friend’ when referencing a shared acquaintance. It can add trust or ease into an online connection if you know someone in common.
• Having a mutual friend sometimes makes me feel safer meeting a new person.
45. He turned on notifications to know immediately when someone likes his profile.
• notifications (noun (plural)) - Alerts that inform you of new messages, matches, or interactions on apps
• Use ‘notifications’ to discuss app or phone alerts that keep you updated on potential matches or incoming messages. Adjust their settings to stay responsive without feeling overwhelmed.
• My phone notifications are blowing up—seems I got a lot of new matches.
46. She noticed his online status was green, so she sent a quick hello.
• online status (noun phrase) - An indicator showing whether someone is currently active on the app
• Use ‘online status’ to reference if someone is actively using the app. It’s a cue for timely conversation but can also pressure people to respond immediately.
• I saw his online status just now; maybe he’ll reply soon.
47. He described himself as outgoing in his bio, always open to meeting new people.
• outgoing (adjective) - Friendly and socially confident, enjoying interaction with others
• Use ‘outgoing’ to highlight a sociable personality trait. It’s useful for letting potential matches know you enjoy conversation, group activities, and frequent social connections.
• I’m more outgoing online, but I can be shy in person.
48. Her passion for music was evident in her detailed bio.
• passion (noun) - A strong enthusiasm or devotion for an activity, interest, or cause
• Use ‘passion’ when discussing intense interests or hobbies in your profile or chats. It showcases what energizes you and helps find people with similar zeal or appreciation.
• I love meeting people who share my passion for travel and new cultures.
49. Her friend request is still pending, so she can’t see his full profile yet.
• pending (adjective) - Awaiting decision, confirmation, or completion
• Use ‘pending’ when referencing something that hasn’t been approved or resolved, like friend requests or date confirmations. It’s a neutral way to say something is in limbo.
• I have a few messages pending in my inbox—I’ll reply soon.
50. He updated his profile with a more recent photo at the beach.
• photo (noun) - An image, typically a picture of yourself on a profile
• Use ‘photo’ when referring to images you upload or share to represent yourself. High-quality, genuine photos often spark more interest and convey honesty.
• Could you send me a photo that’s not on your profile?
51. She gave him a ping after he went quiet for a few days.
• ping (verb/noun) - A quick message or alert to get someone’s attention
• Use ‘ping’ informally to suggest a brief prompt or reminder. It’s a friendly nudge in online dating, letting someone know you’d like a response or update.
• I’ll ping you later to confirm our plans for Friday.
52. They switched to a different platform with better security features.
• platform (noun) - A software or website used for communication, such as a dating website or app
• Use ‘platform’ to describe the dating website or app you’re on. It’s useful when comparing different sites, especially if you’re trying to find one with the right features.
• Which platform do you think has the best matching system?
53. She adjusted her preferences to see profiles with shared hobbies.
• preferences (noun (plural)) - A set of conditions or traits you favor or look for in potential matches
• Use ‘preferences’ when discussing personal criteria like age range, location, or interests. They help filter profiles, but staying flexible can lead to unexpected connections.
• I haven’t set my preferences strictly, because I’m open to meeting new types of people.
54. He values his privacy and doesn’t share his full name until trust is built.
• privacy (noun) - The state of being free from public attention or not having personal details exposed
• Use ‘privacy’ to underline the importance of personal security. In online dating, safeguarding personal data is crucial for maintaining comfort and confidence in conversations.
• I only reveal my phone number once I’m confident my privacy is respected.
55. Her profile picture is a casual selfie with a friendly smile.
• profile picture (noun phrase) - A main photo representing your account on an app or site
• Use ‘profile picture’ to refer to the primary photo on your dating account. Choose a clear, recent image to give others a transparent, welcoming first impression.
• I changed my profile picture to something more recent—what do you think?
56. The app’s new prompt asked about her funniest travel experience.
• prompt (noun) - A question or statement on a profile designed to spark conversation
• Use ‘prompt’ when referencing built-in questions or statements. They help break the ice, showcasing your personality and encouraging others to respond with related experiences.
• I answered a prompt about my favorite hobby, and it got great replies.
57. She scrolled through her match queue for interesting profiles.
• queue (noun) - A list or sequence of profiles waiting to be reviewed or matched
• Use ‘queue’ for the lineup of potential matches or messages. It keeps track of who you’ve seen, liked, or plan to revisit, making online dating more organized.
• I’ve got so many people in my queue, I can’t decide who to message first!
58. His refusal to share basic details felt like a red flag.
• red flag (noun phrase) - A warning sign indicating potential issues or incompatibilities in a relationship
• Use ‘red flag’ to indicate problems or suspicious behavior that suggests caution. Recognizing them early helps avoid unhealthy or deceptive relationships online.
• I noticed a few red flags in her story—maybe I should be cautious.
59. She’s looking for a relationship, not just a casual fling.
• relationship (noun) - A connection or bond between two or more people, often referring to a romantic partnership
• Use ‘relationship’ for discussing deeper or more committed connections. Clarifying if you want a serious relationship or casual dating helps manage expectations from the start.
• Are you on the app for a relationship or just to make friends?
60. She appreciated his quick response time and consistent communication.
• response time (noun phrase) - The duration it takes for someone to reply to a message
• Use ‘response time’ to describe how fast or slow someone replies. It can indicate interest level but can also vary due to busy schedules or personal communication styles.
• His response time is so slow, I’m not sure if he’s actually interested.
61. He gave her a right swipe because they shared similar travel goals.
• right swipe (noun phrase) - An action on many dating apps to show you like or approve of someone’s profile
• Use ‘right swipe’ to confirm interest on swipe-based dating apps. It’s the key gesture that can lead to forming a match if the other person also swipes right.
• If you’re curious, just give a right swipe and see if it’s mutual.
62. She always arranges first dates in public places for safety.
• safety (noun) - A condition of being protected from harm or danger, crucial when meeting online connections
• Use ‘safety’ to emphasize the need for caution when meeting someone new. Taking simple measures like public meet-ups or telling a friend your plans is vital in online dating.
• I share my location with a friend to ensure my safety on first dates.
63. She scrolled through endless profiles, hoping to find a good match.
• scroll (verb) - Move through a list or feed on a screen, usually to view additional profiles or content
• Use ‘scroll’ for browsing multiple profiles or updates. It’s a common term in app usage and implies continuously moving through content, so pace yourself to avoid overwhelm.
• I could scroll for hours if I’m not careful—it’s addictive!
64. He uploaded a recent selfie, smiling in his backyard.
• selfie (noun) - A photograph that one has taken of oneself, typically with a smartphone or webcam
• Use ‘selfie’ to refer to self-taken photos commonly used in dating profiles. It’s a quick way to show your appearance and daily life, but ensure it’s clear and honest.
• Should I replace my main photo with a more relaxed selfie?
65. They bonded over a similar sense of humor and silly memes.
• sense of humor (noun phrase) - A person’s ability to perceive humor or appreciate jokes
• Use ‘sense of humor’ to talk about comedic compatibility. Sharing jokes or witty remarks fosters a fun, relaxed environment and can be a great rapport-builder online.
• Does she have a sense of humor, or is it all serious talk?
66. The server went down last night, so no one could log in to the app.
• server (noun) - A computer or system that provides data to other computers, hosting the dating platform
• Use ‘server’ for technical issues with the platform. While not a casual conversation piece, it helps to understand app downtime or disruptions that might affect messaging.
• I couldn’t send messages because the server was overloaded.
67. She doesn’t want to settle for someone who doesn’t meet her core values.
• settle (verb) - To accept a situation or person, often less than ideal, to end a search or wait
• Use ‘settle’ when advising someone not to choose a match out of impatience or fear. Encourage them to hold out for a more suitable partner or real compatibility.
• Don’t settle just because you’re tired of swiping—wait for the right connection.
68. He’s a bit shy and prefers messaging longer before meeting in person.
• shy (adjective) - Being reserved or having nervous feelings in social situations
• Use ‘shy’ to convey a reserved disposition. It helps others understand why you might move slowly in conversation or hesitate to meet soon, prompting understanding and patience.
• I’m pretty shy in real life, but I’m more open online.
69. She’s been single for a while and is now ready to date again.
• single (adjective) - Not in a romantic relationship; unmarried
• Use ‘single’ to state relationship status. It’s often the baseline descriptor in online dating, letting others know you’re actively searching for a partner or open to connections.
• I’ve been single for three years, so I’m exploring apps to meet new people.
70. Her messages conveyed genuine sincerity, which impressed him.
• sincerity (noun) - Honesty of mind or intention; genuineness
• Use ‘sincerity’ to highlight honesty and authenticity in how someone communicates. It’s valued in building trust quickly, which is crucial for successful online connections.
• I appreciate sincerity in profiles, even if it’s a bit vulnerable.
71. Their small talk about the weather quickly led to deeper topics.
• small talk (noun phrase) - Polite conversation about unimportant or uncontroversial matters
• Use ‘small talk’ when discussing light, casual conversation topics. It can break the ice, but moving beyond small talk fosters deeper connections and genuine interest.
• Online small talk can feel awkward—maybe I’ll jump into a more interesting question.
72. They felt an immediate spark after a few funny messages.
• spark (noun) - A quality in a relationship or conversation that ignites interest or excitement
• Use ‘spark’ to describe that special, intangible feeling that drives attraction. It’s what makes a conversation lively and indicates that two people might really click.
• I’m looking for that spark, not just forced conversation.
73. She prefers speed dating events to meet multiple people quickly.
• speed dating (noun phrase) - A quick-fire dating event where participants have short chats to see if there’s interest
• Use ‘speed dating’ when referencing fast-paced or round-robin style introductions. It’s a popular alternative to apps, providing immediate impressions in a real-life setting.
• We could try speed dating if the app isn’t giving us solid matches.
74. The event was free because it had a corporate sponsor covering costs.
• sponsor (noun) - A person or company that supports a service or event, sometimes seen in dating app partnerships
• Use ‘sponsor’ when discussing who financially backs an event or app feature. Less common in casual chats, but it can be relevant for promotional deals or brand tie-ins.
• There’s a sponsored deal on premium features this month—should I try it?
75. He asked for suggestions on where they should go for a first date.
• suggestion (noun) - An idea or plan put forward for consideration
• Use ‘suggestion’ for proposing ideas—like date venues or conversation topics. Encouraging suggestions keeps the chat two-sided, showing that you value the other person’s input.
• Any suggestion for a good opening line that’s not too cheesy?
76. He used his super like option to stand out in her match queue.
• super like (noun phrase) - A special feature in some dating apps to show heightened interest in someone
• Use ‘super like’ to express stronger enthusiasm than a standard ‘like.’ It’s a premium feature on some apps, so use it sparingly to make a memorable impression.
• I got a super like from that profile we were just talking about!
77. She decided to swipe left because their interests didn’t align at all.
• swipe left (verb phrase) - A gesture to show disinterest in a profile on certain dating apps
• Use ‘swipe left’ to reject a profile. On many dating apps, it’s the standard motion to indicate you’re not interested. Quick and intuitive for scanning multiple profiles.
• I usually swipe left if I see a blurry photo or negative vibes.
78. He swiped right because her sense of humor matched his perfectly.
• swipe right (verb phrase) - A gesture to show interest or approval of a profile on certain dating apps
• Use ‘swipe right’ to accept or show interest in a profile. If both parties do it, you typically form a ‘match’ and can start chatting.
• I’m definitely swiping right on this one, we share three hobbies!
79. Her tagline read, ‘Coffee lover seeking latte art critic.’
• tagline (noun) - A short, memorable phrase in a profile meant to capture attention
• Use ‘tagline’ to present a concise statement or witty remark under your name. It can spark curiosity, highlight your interests, or show a glimpse of your personality.
• I need a clever tagline that reflects my love of sports.
80. They’ve been in the talking stage for a couple of weeks now.
• talking stage (noun phrase) - A period in which two people chat and get to know each other before deciding on a date or commitment
• Use ‘talking stage’ to label that early chatting phase where you’re testing compatibility. It’s a common phrase in modern dating to describe an uncommitted period of conversation.
• I’m in the talking stage with someone new—we might meet soon.
81. She sent him a text-decoration-underline fw-bold bg-info text-dark p-1">text confirming their meet-up details.
• text (verb/noun) - To send someone a written message via phone or app; also refers to the message itself
• Use ‘text’ for everyday messaging, whether through an app or phone. It’s convenient and immediate, making it the go-to mode of communication in online dating.
• I’ll text you once I get there to finalize the meeting spot.
82. She checked the timestamp to see how long it had been since he replied.
• timestamp (noun) - A marker indicating the time at which a message was sent or received
• Use ‘timestamp’ to discuss when messages were sent or seen. It can reveal reading and response habits, but be mindful not to overanalyze or assume too much.
• The timestamp shows he read it hours ago but hasn’t responded.
83. He chose to unmatch after realizing they had nothing in common.
• unmatch (verb) - To remove a match connection with someone, usually ending further contact on that platform
• Use ‘unmatch’ when you decide to terminate a match on a dating app. It’s final in that specific platform, so be sure before you cut off contact completely.
• If you’re uncomfortable, you can just unmatch and move on.
84. She left several messages unread while she decided how to respond.
• unread (adjective) - Messages or notifications that have not yet been opened or viewed
• Use ‘unread’ when referencing messages that haven’t been opened. It’s relevant in online dating apps to track how quickly you or the other person engages in conversation.
• I see two messages unread—maybe I’ll check them later if I’m interested.
85. He did a profile update to reflect his new job and location.
• update (verb/noun) - Bring something current, such as changing information or software
• Use ‘update’ to keep your profile fresh, ensuring it reflects your current life. Regular updates can maintain interest and help potential matches see new developments in your life.
• I need to update my photos, they’re from two years ago.
86. Her username was a playful pun on her favorite movie.
• username (noun) - A chosen name or handle used to identify oneself on a platform
• Use ‘username’ to identify your account. It often reflects your personality or interests, so choose something memorable and easy for others to recall or type.
• I wish I picked a simpler username—it’s hard to spell.
87. They agreed to a video chat before meeting in person.
• video chat (noun) - A real-time visual conversation conducted over the internet
• Use ‘video chat’ to suggest face-to-face interaction online. It’s a step up from texting, allowing you to read expressions, gauge authenticity, and feel more connected.
• Let’s have a quick video chat tonight to see if we click.
88. They planned a virtual date to watch a movie together remotely.
• virtual date (noun phrase) - An online event or meeting resembling a date, often via video or chat
• Use ‘virtual date’ when referencing an online alternative to in-person meets. It’s great for building comfort and reducing travel or safety concerns before deciding on a face-to-face.
• A virtual date can break the ice before we meet in person.
89. He sent her a voice note to convey his excitement about the upcoming date.
• voice note (noun) - An audio recording sent as a message instead of text
• Use ‘voice note’ to add a personal touch, letting others hear your tone, laughter, or emotion. It can make online conversations more authentic than plain text alone.
• Let me leave you a quick voice note so you can hear my voice.
90. She admired his vulnerability when he spoke about past relationship fears.
• vulnerability (noun) - Willingness to open up or show emotional exposure
• Use ‘vulnerability’ to describe honest, open emotional sharing. Balancing it carefully can enhance genuine connections in online dating while still safeguarding personal boundaries.
• Sharing a bit of vulnerability can help build trust, but don’t overshare too soon.
91. He gave her a walkthrough of the dating app features after she joined.
• walkthrough (noun) - A step-by-step explanation or demonstration, often of how to use an app feature or process
• Use ‘walkthrough’ when explaining how something works, like setting up an online dating profile. It’s helpful for newcomers who need clear, guided steps for best results.
• I can give you a quick walkthrough of how to set your preferences.
92. His witty replies kept her intrigued all evening.
• witty (adjective) - Showing quick and inventive verbal humor
• Use ‘witty’ for describing clever or humorous remarks that make your chat lively. Wit shows intelligence, creativity, and can be a strong selling point on your profile.
• I like someone who’s witty—it keeps the conversation playful and fun.
93. She felt apprehensive about meeting someone from the internet.
• apprehensive (adjective) - Anxious or fearful that something bad or unpleasant will happen
• Use ‘apprehensive’ to express caution or nervousness before a new step, like meeting in person. It helps communicate your concerns clearly, inviting understanding or reassurance.
• I’m a bit apprehensive about video calls, but I’ll try it.
94. They’re in a modern courtship that started with online messages and virtual dates.
• courtship (noun) - A period during which a couple develops a romantic relationship, especially with a view to marriage
• Use ‘courtship’ to describe a more classical or formal dating approach, possibly leading to a serious commitment. It conveys intent and respect for a deeper connection.
• I still believe in some traditional aspects of courtship, even if we met online.
95. Their open dialogue quickly moved past small talk into real connection.
• dialogue (noun) - A conversation between two or more people
• Use ‘dialogue’ to emphasize continuous, meaningful conversation. It suggests depth and mutual exchange, useful for building trust and respect in online dating contexts.
• I hope our dialogue stays honest and friendly, even if we disagree on some things.
96. He decided to follow her travel blog after learning about her adventures.
• follow (verb) - To subscribe or stay updated on someone’s profile or posts, often on social media
• Use ‘follow’ if you want to see more of someone’s social media updates or keep track of their activities. It can be a subtle way to show deeper interest.
• I gave you a follow on Instagram so I can see more of your photos.
97. Her thoughtful gestures, like sending funny memes, made him smile.
• gestures (noun (plural)) - Actions or movements expressing an idea or sentiment, like liking posts or sending GIFs
• Use ‘gestures’ to refer to little acts of care or interest, from digital stickers to real-life invitations. They show effort and consideration, building positive rapport.
• Sometimes small gestures, like a kind comment, can mean a lot.
98. He used a clever pun as an icebreaker in his first message.
• icebreaker (noun) - A thing that serves to relieve tension between people or start conversation
• Use ‘icebreaker’ when you want to loosen up conversation at the start. Great icebreakers are personal, playful, or relevant to someone’s profile to make a memorable impression.
• I need a fun icebreaker to kick off the chat—any ideas?
99. She asked about his intentions to confirm he wasn’t just looking for a casual hookup.
• intentions (noun (plural)) - One’s purpose or reason for seeking a particular relationship or outcome
• Use ‘intentions’ to clarify what you want—casual dating, long-term relationship, or friendship. Openly discussing intentions fosters honesty and helps align with the right matches.
• Being clear about your intentions helps avoid misunderstandings later.
100. They decided to reconnect after their initial conversation fizzled out.
• reconnect (verb) - To connect again or re-establish contact, often after time apart
• Use ‘reconnect’ to describe reaching out again to a match after communication stalled. It suggests renewed interest and can reopen a window of opportunity for connection.
• Let’s reconnect this weekend and see if we can pick up where we left off.
101. He went through the app’s verification system to prove his photos were real.
• verification (noun) - The process of confirming the authenticity of a user or profile
• Use ‘verification’ to refer to the steps an app takes to confirm someone is genuine. It boosts trust, reduces fake profiles, and can encourage more sincere interactions.
• I like that this platform offers photo verification—it helps avoid catfishes.