[Poem] ZHOU YE LE (FIRST MEETING IN THE BRIDAL CHAMBER) - A Glimpse of Love Grown Bitter through Separation

Zhou Ye Le (First Meeting in the Bridal Chamber)

昼夜乐(洞房记得初相遇) - 柳永

Zhou Ye Le (First Meeting in the Bridal Chamber) - Liu Yong

When Fleeting Joy Turns to Lifelong Longing

【Original Chinese】

昼夜乐(洞房记得初相遇)

洞房记得初相遇,
便只合,长相聚。
何期小会幽欢,
变作离别苦?
若知是今后相思意,
早会与你共欢娱。

抱琵琶、弦管楼中住,
教音调、作离声,
此夕不堪回顾!
但暗思量,争忍重逢?
从此天涯何处?


【Literal English Translation】

Zhou Ye Le (First Meeting in the Bridal Chamber)

I still recall that first meeting in our bridal room—
We were meant, so it seemed, to share our days.
Who would have thought a brief, secret delight
Would turn into the bitterness of parting?
Had I known that longing would remain forever,
I would have savored more fully our time together.

Now I dwell in the tower with pipa and flutes,
Their melodies cast in tones of farewell.
Tonight, how can I bear to look back?
In the hush, I imagine it—could we endure to meet again?
And from now on, scattered at the ends of the earth, where shall we be?

In “Zhou Ye Le (First Meeting in the Bridal Chamber),” Liu Yong uses the ci form to reveal the emotional transition from newlywed bliss to the sorrow of parting. The title itself, “昼夜乐,” means “Day and Night Music,” alluding to a tune—originally a musical mode—to which these lyrics were set.

The poem begins by recalling the intimacy of a bridal chamber scene, where the couple seemed destined for ongoing happiness. Their short, secret tryst, however, unexpectedly transforms into prolonged suffering. This tension between bliss and anguish is central to Liu Yong’s style: moments of tenderness are abruptly swept away, replaced by a pining that colors every note of daily life.

A key motif here is the power of music. The speaker finds himself “dwelling in the tower with pipa and flutes,” instruments that ordinarily enhance festivities. Now, though, their tunes are turned to ‘tones of farewell.’ By highlighting the shift from joyous harmony to sorrow-laden melodies, Liu Yong encapsulates how external surroundings can mirror the heart’s turmoil.

In the final lines, the poem contemplates whether the lovers could endure meeting again, given how painful such separations have proven. The distance invoked (“ends of the earth”) reflects the vast emotional gulf forced upon them. Even if they were physically close again, the bitter memory of earlier joy gone awry lingers. Thus, a once-blissful union becomes a haunting recollection.

Characteristic of Northern Song ci, the poem unites personal emotion with a precise melodic structure. Liu Yong’s language is unadorned yet deeply evocative, moving swiftly from the tenderness of first love to the heartache of inevitable parting. Through just a few lines, he illuminates how fleeting happiness can be and how it may transform into abiding sorrow. This intense focus on romantic longing and separation helped make Liu Yong one of the era’s most renowned ci poets.

Ultimately, “Zhou Ye Le (First Meeting in the Bridal Chamber)” resonates as a portrayal of how love’s sweet beginnings can lead to a keen awareness of impermanence. The poem remains cherished by readers who find in these lines an enduring testament to the complexities of human attachment, reminding us that fleeting moments of closeness can echo throughout a lifetime.

Key points

• Highlights the emotional shift from wedding bliss to sorrowful separation.
• Uses music (pipa, flutes) as a metaphor for changing fortunes and inner turmoil.
• Exemplifies Northern Song ci poetry’s blend of personal intimacy and lyrical structure.
• Reminds readers that ephemeral joy can transform into lasting yearning.

Comments
  • Silent Green Wolf

    A short reflection: it’s as though the poet stands behind memory’s veil, neither despairing nor fully content—just cherishing that hush-laden moment that once promised an entire future and now lingers as a mild ache in his heart.

  • Mystic Knight

    Short reflection: each phrase teases the memory of that first meeting, weaving a gentle ache into what might otherwise be a simple recollection of young love’s glow.

  • GenesisNOV

    I love how the poet doesn’t drown in sorrow; instead, he crafts an intimate hush, letting parted illusions remain quietly tender rather than plummeting into despair.

  • PrimeSentr

    Sometimes it echoes how modern love stories, blossoming swiftly on social apps, retain a warm sheen in memory even after they fade. The poem’s hush stands for that mild heartbreak, tempered by gratitude for the bright moment once shared.

  • Epic Cyber Vision

    Short impression: each verse flows like a gentle breeze over a half-lit window, stirring curtains that reveal the poet’s lingering illusions, half-sweet, half-sorrowful.

  • Cheerful Hare

    Short yet strong: each line quietly intensifies the memory of that first meeting, acknowledging how heartbreak might settle softly, overshadowed by the hush of a parted dawn.

  • Electric Dragon

    Compared to Liu Yong’s ‘雨霖铃(寒蝉凄切),’ which lingers on sorrowful farewells beneath a rainy sky, ‘昼夜乐(洞房记得初相遇)’ zooms in on private recollections of a first encounter’s glow. Both revolve around heartbreak, yet here the poem leans more toward nostalgic warmth than the raw lament found in ‘雨霖铃.’

  • Stellar Matrix

    Mid reflection: the poem reveals heartbreak shaped into a gentle hush, acknowledging illusions that soared and parted, but never quite turned bitter—like a half-lit corridor where the candle still glows, even though the dawn that fueled it is long gone.

  • Arctic Meteor

    Sometimes it resonates with digital illusions: brief online connections where hearts spark quickly then vanish. The poem’s hush-laden acceptance could guide us to appreciate those ephemeral sparks, even as they fade in the daily scurry.

  • Noble Cougar

    Short but luminous: each line underscores the poet’s refusal to let heartbreak overshadow the wonder of that young love’s dawn, using hush instead of lament to keep illusions alive.

  • Mystic Circuit

    Sometimes I think of present-day couples parted by sudden travel demands, forced to rely on video calls. The poem’s hush-laden heartbreak echoes how modern lovers, too, yearn for that vanished intimacy once so tangible, now reduced to distant screens and whispered goodnights.

  • Silent Green Hawk

    A middle reflection: the verses capture a twilight where illusions mingle with memory, forging a bittersweet acceptance that all bright dawns, no matter how cherished, must eventually recede into twilight’s hush.

  • Swift Green Wolf

    Sometimes I see parallels in how modern relationships form rapidly during fleeting travel experiences—like pop-up romances on work trips—only to dissolve. The poem’s hush-laced memory resonates with that quiet aftermath, acknowledging both the joy of a short union and the mild sorrow that remains.

  • RadiantArm

    I admire how the poem suggests heartbreak needn’t be loud or ruinous; it can settle into a tempered hush, where even illusions that never fully materialized can remain soothing in recollection.

  • RogueNight

    Short but vivid: reading it feels like gently leafing through old photos of a young romance, each image shimmering with the poet’s quiet ache.

  • Thunder Wolf

    One modern parallel might be how wedding anniversaries sometimes come tinged with nostalgia for those initial, starry-eyed days. Even if illusions fade with daily life, the hush-laden memory in the poem suggests those bright beginnings can still soothe hearts in the calm after heartbreak’s storm.

  • Light Eagle

    We sense a mild tension—like the poet stands at a threshold, glimpsing how ephemeral love can be, yet refusing to let the dream’s glow vanish entirely.

  • Electric Wave

    Ultimately, ‘昼夜乐(洞房记得初相遇)’ remains a quiet ode to parted illusions, weaving hush-laden heartbreak and sweet recollection into a soft tapestry of acceptance. Liu Yong’s mild approach balances sadness and gratitude, leaving behind a vow that while illusions may fade, their gentle echo can persist in memory’s hush, comforting the poet—and us—in a timeless twilight of calm reflection.

  • Crystal Vision

    Compared again with Li Bai’s flamboyant love poems that exude cosmic celebration, Liu Yong’s approach here remains more subdued, focusing on the hush of recollection rather than the grand fireworks of passion. Both can highlight heartbreak, but from vastly different vantage points—one roaring, the other softly sighing.

  • NovaGenesi

    Soft yearning drifts through each line, recalling the hush of a barely remembered night long past.

  • Fierce Black Bat Cave

    Compared once more to Liu Yong’s ‘凤栖梧(伫倚危楼风细细),’ which places heartbreak in a breezy tower vantage, ‘昼夜乐(洞房记得初相遇)’ draws heartbreak into a more intimate interior—focusing on a half-lit chamber’s gentle hush rather than the open wind’s swirl. Both revolve around parted illusions, yet each setting intensifies heartbreak from a distinct angle: airy tower vs. private chamber hush.

  • Lunar Blade

    A longer reflection: the poet weaves heartbreak into the memory of that first, enchanting meeting. Each line concedes illusions are ephemeral, yet cherishes their afterglow. This hush-laden approach forgoes dramatic outcry, leaning on quiet acceptance instead. Instead of cursing fate, he quietly honors the bright dawn that once belonged to two hearts newly entwined. In doing so, the poem captures a universal longing: to hold onto the sweet hush of early love, knowing well it can’t endure unaltered under time’s persistent hand. It’s a gentle vow that heartbreak, while real, might not destroy the magic of that initial spark if held in the hush of recollection.

  • Lunar Tiger

    A middle note: the calm acceptance of heartbreak in these lines reveals how illusions can linger, not as raw wounds but as softly glowing embers fueling gentle reflection in a hush-laden night.

  • HydraVenom

    A middle reflection: the poem underscores how illusions left by parted lovers can remain gentle, refusing to yield to bitterness, shaping heartbreak into a mild vow never fully broken.

  • Fabled Owl

    One senses the poet leaning near a dim lamp, letting each murmur of memory unfold in the hush of a near-empty room, carrying a faint smile despite the underlying regret.

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